Looks can be deceiving, so before you probe, be positive of your location - Continue until you're in all the way, and then stop once again until her body adapts Since you are reading this story, you've obviously been able to overcome anything such as that - PPS: Safe sex: if you use condoms, use a water based lubricant (and lots of it) if you are using latex condoms Some couples manage to incorporate this into their lovemaking One important thing to note: if you aren't using gloves, make certain your nails are trimmed and you have no rough edges or corners, There are many types of oils/lubes available that you can purchase for many uses but you must be considerate when you use these Explore your own asses I refer of course to an "enema", and taken several hours before sex should help prevent any surprises, . Some suggest you bring your partner to orgasm first before even attempting anal If you reach around and get your fingers/hand wet with her pussy you are bound to stimulate her which has an effect on the position of your cock - Eventually that may not be necessary, and if she is indeed anally erotic, she won't even need all the relaxation and preparation, Hopefully your partner's sighs will encourage further naughty activities - The forth time, she had multiple orgasms when we finally had anal intercourse, and now she swears she can come from anal stimulation alone and her anal orgasms are stronger than any other types - Men Insertion should begin with the tiniest tip of the smallest finger Don't try and push the entire finger in at once, Keep it wet and keep her cumming and you should both love this adventure, Additionally, her anus may be so tight you may not be able to last as long as is typical for you. Work on your stamina And generally seem to only do it to hold onto the man in their life to keep him from wandering or maybe just feel it is their duty to please their mate. And in the end, it's a helluva lot more fun than Masturbation While not all people will need to follow every step, they are good guidelines to follow in order to make your anal sex encounter as enjoyable as possible. If you wore a condom when you fucked her ass, then of course, you can replace it with a fresh one or take it off and then penetrate her pussy, She knows her own body and by now you probably have a huge erection (which does tend to limit the blood supply to the thinking portion of your brain) - Of course it took a while but once I gotten used to it, it felt really good No offense meant guys - " She replied, "I would strap on a plastic cock and fuck him with it, She used to get so wet just inserting fingers into my ass, Water-soluble lubes work well with condoms and are soothing and slippery. Doing that can give her a nasty infection Sanitation Yes. A very important element to remember during anal sex is the possibility of cross-contamination I hope that both men and women who read this article do find something useful within it. The next time during sex she inserted 1 finger into my ass - When I was growing up I always had a steady girlfriend and our sex life was pretty normal. Too much alcohol tends to dull nerves and sensitivities, and you really need all your faculties as you attempt this new skill The third time around, she came from oral w/my finger in her ass Why the Fascination with Anal Stimulation - Communication It can be very difficult to introduce the idea of anal sex into an established relationship, Neither one of you should drink to excess. Go slowly, adding more of your finger and watch and listen to her signals It is necessary that we begin matters by talking